Sorting through and tossing out years of old magazines in my latest attempt to cleanse my home and mind of excess baggage, the torn pages of “eye candy” I have collected have given me some clarity on how I want my home to “feel.”  Over two decades I have filed away or given to clients favorite vignettes from Veranda, Southern Living, Cottage Living, House Beautiful, Traditional Home & Sunset magazines.  The photos all share similar elements: neutral colors, natural fabrics (lots of sisal, linen and cotton) and a comfortable,  wrinkled, un-staged feel. Each room has a piece with some considerable age to it. My dream kitchen is utilitarian with plenty of space for friends to gather and sit without being underfoot; while my master bath aspirations are more luxurious (so I can feel like I am at the Wynn or Ritz Carlton every day!) Your design choices should enhance your life  – so have your home work for you – not vice versa. Formal dining rooms can be a waste of space so assign that room two jobs – and let it be your welcoming “library” as well. Create surroundings that reflect how you want to feel when you are in them. Take your furniture outdoors and so what if it fades? When I am home I want to relax, put my feet up on the furniture and look outdoors, and I want my guests to do the same. You may want to feel stylish or chic and entertain with flair! No matter your style…your home is your sanctuary and the choices you make will hopefully invite you to create, retreat, luxuriate…